Code of conductHow we treat each other.
Chess is more fun when the club feels safe and friendly. These are the basics — mostly just being a good human at the board.
RespectEveryone, every time
- Be kind. Always.Everyone started somewhere. New players, younger players, and losing players all deserve the same respect.
- Encourage, don't tease.Good moves get a "nice one." Bad moves get quiet. No laughing at mistakes.
- Keep your words clean.No swearing, name-calling, or insults — at the board, in the hall, or online.
- Hands to yourself.No shoving, grabbing, or rough play. The club is a safe place for everyone.
SportsmanshipWinning, losing, drawing
- Win like you've done it before.No gloating, no victory dances, no rubbing it in. Just a "good game" and a handshake.
- Lose with grace.No throwing pieces, slamming the board, or storming off. Losing is part of learning.
- Draws are okay too.Not every game has a winner, and that's fine. A draw counts for something.
- Watch quietly.If you're not playing, don't point at the board, whisper hints, or react to moves.
Honesty
Play straight, report straight
Never cheat.
No engines, no help from friends or parents mid-game, no peeking at notes. If you're caught, the game is lost.
Report honestly.
Tell your parent the real result — win, loss, or draw. The ladder only works if everyone is honest.
Own your moves.
No takebacks unless your opponent agreed to allow them before the game. If you touched it, you moved it.
Speak up if something feels wrong.
If a player or a grown-up makes you uncomfortable, tell a parent or organizer right away.
Agreements between playersBending the rules, the fair way
Most club rules — touch-move, takebacks, offering draws — are defaults. Two players can agree to play a little differently. The key is to have fun and be a good sport.
- Agree before the first move.If you want to play with takebacks, skip touch-move, or use a different clock, settle it before the game starts — not after a blunder.
- Both players have to say yes.An agreement only counts if both players actually agree. "I thought we were" isn't an agreement.
- Ladder games still count.A game you both agreed to play still reports as a real result. Bent rules don't mean a practice game.
- Be a good sport about it.If your opponent wants strict rules, play strict. If they want a friendly takeback game, play friendly. Don't pressure anyone either way.
If a rule gets brokenHow we handle it
- Listen to organizers.When a grown-up asks you to stop, pause, or move on, do it the first time.
- Warnings, then a break.Breaking the code of conduct gets a warning. Doing it again may mean sitting out a week.
- Serious stuff is serious.Bullying, cheating on purpose, or hurting someone can end a player's season with the club.
Also readThe club rules.
The club rules cover how games and sign-ups work. This page is about how we treat each other. Both matter.